Every relationship has rules, even the vanilla ones. As a D/s relationship, this one has more rules than most. Some of these rules, while they may seem simple and basic, help reaffirm the control that exists in the relationship. Some serve simply to remind one person of their role in the relationship.
Rules can be changed at any time, for a member's safety, health and well being, to enhance one member's participation in the relationship, or, quite simply, for the Dominant partner's own amusement. It is simply by his pleasure and his permission that I, the submissive one, serve.
The rules are always evolving and this will probably be the most edited and updated entry I will ever write.
Dress and Appearance:
Color:
Whenever dresed, at least one visible garment will be sky blue, smoke gray, or a combination of the two.
Accessories:
At all times a collar will be worn that is clearly a BDSM collar.
When around anyone besides only my Dominant, my hair will be covered from at least hair line to nape of the neck
Hair will be covered even when alone unless otherwise authorized
Jewlery will be tasteful and silver in color, the only exception being Pappa's gold wedding ring on a gold chain around my neck
Medic Alert bracelet will be worn at all times when out of the house
Style:
Clothes will be fairly conservative and well fitting
Clothes will be approved by Dominant before dressing (see "Contact Requirements" below)
Undergarments:
Tasteful, well fitting, adult style undergarments will be worn whenever dressed.
Undergarments will be bikini style panties, a bra, and socks
Nylon pantyhose will be worn when appropriate
Hair:
Hair will be no shorter then mid back and kept clean and brushed
Hair will be worn down at all times unless otherwise approved
Grooming:
Neck down will be kept free of any and all body hair
Finger and toe nails will be kept neat and clean, toe nails will be kept trimmed and filed, finger nails will be no longer then 1/2 inch past finger tips
Finger and toe nails will be painted in Dominant's choice of color
Misc:
When alone with Dominant, or just alone in general, no clothing will be worn except for collar
When at a public community event or club, ONLY sky blue and smoke gray, or a combination of the two, will be worn, including undergarments
Contact Requirements:
Daily:
When waking up, an email will be sent with the day's schedule including exams, this email will also include a request to dress if needed and a description of the outfit to be worn. If no reply is given in 20 minutes, permission is to be assumed.
An email will be sent before going to bed to request permission to go to bed, again, if no reply in 20 minutes, permission is assumed.
All emails sent will be answered promptly
Weekly:
At least one phone call a week will be placed
Three pictures will be sent a week, minimum. Pictures sent the same day as the phone call will not count.
Misc:
While with Dominant, I will ask permission for everything
When eating with Dominant, I will wait for his permission to eat or for him to feed me
When unsure of anything, I will ask
When speaking to other Dominants, proper respect will be shown (Sir or Ma'am)
When speaking to my Dominant or about my Dominant after this entry, I will use Master, never his given name without prior permission
When refering to myself, I will use girl or this one (after this entry)
Postures/Positions:
In Public:
I will sit in a chair, with my legs under a table or desk, and my knees will never touch
When standing, my knees will never touch, leaving my legs at least slightly parted at all times
In private:
I will assume any position Dominant commands
Default position will be kneeling before him, knees spread as wide as possible, backside resting on my heels, hands, palms up, on my thighs
General:
Schedule:
I will wake up at least one hour before required to leave for school or work
I will be in bed by 10PM with lights out being 11PM unless otherwise authorized
Medical:
All medication will be taken at the time it is needed
Dominant reserves the right to request any and all medical reports and blood sugar logs at any time
Diet:
I will follow the nutrition guidelines to keep my illness controlled
Dominant rewerves the right to adjust diet as needed to maintain a healthy and attractive weight
Vices:
I will smoke no more than 7 ciggerettes a day without permission
I will not drink without Dominant's prior approval, never alone, and never to excess
Misc:
I will sleep naked unless otherwise authorized by Dominant
When sleeping, at least my left ankle will be attached to the footboard of the bed by a cuff and teather.
Sex/Self Pleasure/ Play Time:
Sex will only be with Dominant, when he desires it, and how he desires it
Orgasms will only be reached with Dominant's permission, on his command, and how he wishes
There will be no self pleasure without Dominant's prior approval or command
If self pleasure is permitted or commanded, orgasm permission will not be assumed and must be given specifically
There will be no BDSM play without Dominant's prior permission and only with Dominant
Puppy play will only be engaged in when Dominant permits and to the extent Dominant allows
Discipline:
All discipline will be at Dominant's discretion
Discipline will be what Dominant feels is appropriate, be it sexual or physical
These rules will be subject to change at any and all times for any reason.
